Rev. Louise's Blog

Loving someone through a gender shift brings up many emotions. If guilt is among them, don't be surprised and don't be too hard on yourself…

Avoiding Dead Names is an act of respect. Avoiding the term "Dead Name" is an act of caring given how the association with death can land.

If someone you love publicly identifies as nonbinary it won’t be long before somebody asks you to explain just what nonbinary means.

Gender Grief is confusing but completely understandable. Our distress does not indicate a lack of love.